One would question whether there is such a thing as only one Love Langauge or if every person should have all the 5 love languages and that they should work with each other.
To smoothen out the blurred lines, we’re sure you can agree that there is always a more dominant one so maybe work on that. Now, the question is – how do we get creative with these love languages?
A Few Tips
- Don’t overthink it
- KISS (keep it simple stupid)
- Make it personal
- Know a bit more about the 5 love languages
What Are The 5 Love Languages?
Acts of Service
The acts of service love language is exactly as it as the name suggests. If you can use the motto “action speaks louder than words” with this one, you will do great. This type of person appreciates someone who will do something that is fulfilling for them. The key word here is ‘do’.
Suggestion:
- Cooking a lovely dinner
- Do something that the person has been delaying
Physical Touch
The physical touch love language is all about touch and the feeling of safety and comfort that comes with physical touch.
Suggestion:
- Buy a pamper treat
- Go for a massage
Quality Time
The quality time love language is about making the time to spend some quality time. This person can be very sentimental. These people love to grow and learn more about others.
Suggestion:
- Pick an unexpected time to spend with the person, this shows that you not only want to spend time but are making the time to spend time with them i.e. grab a cuppa joe at a coffee spot before work
- Eat dinner together paired with conversation
Receiving Gifts
The language of receiving gifts may seem materialistic, but it’s more about the act of giving – it’s the thought behind the gift and the reassurance that comes with it.
Suggestion:
- Get something sentimental and thoughtful
- Crafts are quite amazing, make something even if its silly
- Spending time can be a gift, just spice up the time with something creative to do
Words Of Affirmation
The words of affirmation love language is about the gift of words. Compliment, encouragement or motivation anyone? You get where we’re going. This love language appreciates feeling special with something that lasts longer – words.
Suggestion:
- Go to a poetry night
- Buy a motivational book
- Make a playlist that reminds you of the person
Have more creative ideas? Tell us what they are.